Love…Finding Nemo, For Guys

Finding Love is like Finding Nemo – For Guys

  • It’s like looking for lost treasure
  • It’s like hunting prey
    • (excuse the non-pc expression!)
    • You need all the information you can get
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      • Maps, last known location, last known contacts
      • What does it involve, how will you know that you have found it?
      • A Profile of the ‘ideal mate’
        • Then construct a very wide confidence interval
          • (margin of error)
      • Where ‘she’ hangs out (likely to be found)
      • What SHE is looking for.
        • Be that person!!!

    • You need hunting/investigative Skills
      • Investigative skills:
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        • See above.
      • ‘Hunting’ skills,
        • Be authentic:
          • can’t hide the real you forever;
          • character like toothpaste
            • will come out under pressure.
        • Start and hold interesting conversations,
          • focus on the other person,
          • about common interests,
          • not just about yourself!!
          • laugh at yourself!
        • personal grooming
    • You have the right kind of preparation/tools
      • You take care of business:
        • You earn a living.
        • You speak up, out.
        • You get it!
          • Life, love, and relationships are wonderful, satisfying, rewarding, fulfilling, the best, ‘can’t do without it’, great!
          • Life, love and relationships are hard, difficult, unpredictable, messy, risky.
            • All at once!
          • Life, love, and relationships are worth it!
      • You are not perfect
        • (not a god either!)
        • You have your own imperfections
          • skeletons/weaknesses/failures/pet peeves
          • So accept hers!
    • You are willing to work
      • Put in some sweat equity
      • “Nothing in the world is worth having
        • or worth doing
        • unless it means effort, pain, and difficulty…”
          • Theodore Roosevelt 
    • You are willing to take a risk
      • Be personally invested,
        • money,
        • time
        • effort

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      • Take the next step
      • Jump off the plane and trust that
        • your training and preparation and that
        • the parachute will open!
      • “A ship in the harbor is safe,
        • but that is not ships are built for”!
          • John A. Shedd
      • Risk rejection!

HAPPY FINDING (HUNTING!!!!) – YOU CAN DO THIS – LET’S DO THIS!

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